Mistress Violet Mays – Professional Mistress Toronto
I am Mistress Violet, let me be your guide.
Mysterious soul, and ritual and performance are important facets of my life. I am a seeker, and I believe that those who seek are well suited to guiding others. You may wish to know that I am invested in emotional, physical and psychological safety. Boundaries are an integral part of becoming attuned to one’s desires and needs, they allow us to go deeper because we know we are in safe hands.
Within our sessions I know how to balance conscious connection with quality touch, and I will do so with grace, humour and creativity. To put things simply, I enjoy administering pain, diving into a chosen fantasy role, and whispering dark secrets into your ear.
As a sensual dominant, I believe in the path of desire, a path which readily confuses the fields of pleasure and pain. This confusion can often leave us feeling bewildered and ashamed, but the journey towards the meeting place of pleasure and pain has, in my experience, ultimately rewarded me with more confidence and more control over how I want and need to be pleasured. It can for you too.
As a male submissive you may feel additional shame living out your desires in a world that privileges male dominance. I assure you that in my domain, men who seek submission and worship of the feminine are not only highly regarded, but expected and rewarded.
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I believe that finding balance within contradictions brings us closer to understanding the dualistic nature of the human experience. Most of us live our lives feeling unsure or guilty about what we want; we can never fully commit to one thing, or we simply don’t know what we are looking for.
Sadomasochism is profoundly energetic in this regard. As an exploration of desire par excellence, it can become a tool for discovering what we really want. When practised consciously and with awareness, it can bring us into the present moment with great force. I value it because of its’ capacity to create moments that give both intense physical satisfaction and deep spiritual immanence. .
I look forward to meeting you.
Mistress Violet Mays Session Activity Interests
Sensation
massage, spanking, biting, punching, kicking, tickling, flogging, leather straps, wooden paddles, whips, nipple play, nipple clamps, weights, tawse, hair brush, riding crops
Immobilization
Japanese rope bondage and suspension (shibari), human furniture, abandonment, mummification, physical compression and encasement, cages, chastity and key holding, leather restraints, padlocks, vac bed, leather body bags, extreme hoods, latex body bags, breath play
Bend Over Boyfriend
anal stimulation, prostate massage, strap-on (for newbies and advanced), fisting and footing, gang bangs
Doctor, Doctor
medical role play, examinations, orifice exploration, gender miss assignment, shaving, light needle play and extreme needle play, golden showers, sounding, leech therapy, catheters, saline infusions, and more…
Beauty and Shame
feminization, sissification, sissy play dates, gender bending, forced-bi, exercise scenes, forced eating, erotic humiliation, chastity
Natural Born Fetishist
latex, foot + leg fetish, heel worship, panty fetish, object worship, fur, sweaty gym clothes and scent play
Games of Life
puppy play, pony play, wrestling, role play – any flavour, incest role play, consensual non-consent
Heat
hot wax, fire play, dirty talking, tease and denial, orgasm control, edging, CBT, caning, violet wand, ErosTek (multiple electrodes available), milking machine
Princess-by-day
shopping trips, purse-holding, lunch dates, pay pigs, chauffeur services, understated public D/s